Hello! I’m Sarah Mollandor, and I’m the Membership Vice President for Gamma Phi Beta at UCLA. Even though I’m on the executive board now, I still remember exactly how I felt walking into GPhi for the first time as a freshman. I had just moved from my hometown of Denver, Colorado, leaving behind my family and the close friends I’d grown up with. It was a huge change, and honestly, I was nervous. I hoped that joining a sorority might help me find a sense of comfort and community; somewhere I could feel at home again.
The second I stepped into the Gamma Phi Beta house, I felt something shift. The girls I talked to were so kind and welcoming. Every conversation felt real. No small talk, no pressure, just genuine connection. I remember leaving that day already wanting to come back.
After getting my bid and officially joining GPhi, that feeling only grew stronger. I’ve built friendships here that I know will last a lifetime. I’ve met my lifelong adventure buddies, bridesmaids, and future aunts to my children. These are the kinds of relationships where you can laugh until your stomach hurts one moment and talk about the hard stuff the next.
Slowly, I stopped feeling the weight of moving across the country, not knowing anyone, and hoping college would live up to my sky-high expectations. Instead, I found myself feeling the way I did at home; surrounded by love, support, and people who genuinely cared about me.
So many of my favorite memories have been made in GPhi: movie nights, pool hangouts, game days, late-night talks, long walks, and dinners filled with laughter. Every girl in this chapter brings something amazing to the table. Whether it’s through theater, STEM, leadership, creativity, or simply being an incredible friend, they inspire me every day to be better and to show up as my most authentic self.
One memory that always sticks with me is the day I called my mom to tell her who my little was going to be. I told her I hadn’t just found the perfect little, I had found someone I could see in my life forever. That’s the kind of bond GPhi has given me, and it’s something I’ll always be grateful for.
As I head into my senior year, my heart feels full but also a little heavy. It’s hard to believe this is my last year making college memories with the girls who have made UCLA feel like home. I’m trying to hold onto every moment, especially the small ones, knowing how much they’ll mean to me later on. When I move on after graduation, I know I’ll miss seeing their faces every day. But the friendships I’ve made here are deeper than distance, and I know these women will always be by my side.
Thank you, Gamma Phi Beta, for being my home away from home and for giving me a family that will stay with me forever.
To all prospective new members: congratulations on your acceptance to UCLA! Not only is UCLA an incredible school, but it’s also a place where unforgettable memories are made and lifelong friendships begin. I know how overwhelming it can feel to step into this new chapter, but it’s also such an exciting time filled with endless opportunities.One of the best decisions I made at UCLA was joining Greek life, and I truly encourage you to explore it. No matter which chapter you join, I’m confident you will find a home away from home and friendships that will last a lifetime. The Panhellenic community here is filled with love, support, and a place for everyone.As you prepare for recruitment, my biggest piece of advice is to simply be yourself. Let your personality shine, because that is how you’ll find where you truly belong.
On behalf of everyone in Gamma Phi Beta, welcome to UCLA. We are so excited to meet you, welcome you into our home, and give you a glimpse into the sisterhood that means so much to us. See you in the fall!